To My White Friends

Posted on May 8, 2020 by sleeplessinsacramento

The first thing I need you to know is this, I am not an expert. I’m not the pro coming… Read more To My White Friends

The One with Flirting

Posted on May 2, 2020May 2, 2020 by sleeplessinsacramento

“Soo… uh… do you like…cheese?” Its my favorite quotable line from She’s the Man as Amanda Bynes is teaching Channing… Read more The One with Flirting

The One with the Lended Heart

Posted on April 25, 2020 by sleeplessinsacramento

There is no such thing as the perfect partner. The partner you choose will likely be similar to you in… Read more The One with the Lended Heart

The One with a Longing Heart

Posted on April 19, 2020May 2, 2020 by sleeplessinsacramento

“It’ll happen when you least expect it so you should just stop caring!” Well-meaning words like this are ones that… Read more The One with a Longing Heart

The One with the Missed Opportunity

Posted on February 13, 2020April 19, 2020 by sleeplessinsacramento

Ok I’m not gonna lie. I have had plenty of drive by crushes. Ya know, when you are sitting in… Read more The One with the Missed Opportunity

The One with Grief

Posted on January 15, 2020February 13, 2020 by sleeplessinsacramento

I don’t do New Year’s Resolutions. I also happen to know that thats the most “basic” thing to say because… Read more The One with Grief

The One with the Mugger

Posted on January 5, 2020January 15, 2020 by sleeplessinsacramento

I say all this, not because I want to tell of my triumph over my own fear, but because as I reflected on this I realized how often this is a struggle we don’t even realize that we go through- when fear changes our identity.